Stop Putting Yourself in Boxes—How to Have Success in the Workplace

All my life I've been put into boxes. All my life I've put myself into boxes.

It's what I've been trained to do. It's what I've been conditioned to do.

And unknowingly, it's what I've been doing to myself in my business.

I've done so much work to unbox myself these past few years. Allowing myself to just be me, but sometimes old habits die hard.

Without being full conscious of it, I compartmentalized myself into being only a Feng Shui Consultant, only a hypnotherapist, only someone who knows how corporate ticks and how to thrive in a challenging workplace.

The thing is, I've been lying. To myself. To you.

I'm not just one thing.

I'm so much more and so are you.

It's time we quit acting like we're less than. Like we're less than worthy of everything we're meant to be.

Being in a corporate environment can sometimes make you feel like you're only one thing. That you're a one trick show. That if you don't fit the molds they've approved, then you're not good enough and you're not worthy of being the best.

It's time we stopped believing this false narrative. It's time we realized the old way of doing things is dead.

Gone are the days where success in the workplace meant that employees dedicated their entire life to work for "the man", gone are the days where people are accepting "the way we've always done it", and gone are the days where we get all of our fulfillment from work.

The old way of doing things is dead and honestly, good riddance!

The old way never really worked anyways. It's time we found a new way. A way that we can not only survive, but thrive at work and at home. A way that we can reach our full potential and be every single thing we were meant to be. A way that we can un-box ourselves and be who we truly are no matter where we are or who we're with. Life's too short to live our life in boxes. Are you ready to unbox yourself with me? Let's do this!

Follow along with me in the next few weeks to learn how you can thrive at work and not just survive. I'll be sharing all my lessons learned, failures, successes, and how I shifted my life at work and home from surviving to thriving.

'Til Next Week,

Phallyn

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About the Author

Phallyn is a corporate veteran turned workplace wellness expert with over a decade of experience in high-pressure environments. Certified in Feng Shui and hypnotherapy, she transformed her own burnout into a career helping businesses build healthier, more effective teams—without outdated corporate fluff. Through humor, honesty, and real-world strategies, she’s here to make work work better.

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