Workplace Health and Wellness: Why Stress Might Be a Choice (And That’s Actually Good News)

Workplace Health and Wellness: Stress Isn’t Always Mandatory

“Stress is a choice.”

Oof. That one stung when my wellness coach first said it. I practically choked on my kombucha. I had a full plate, a stacked calendar, and a brain that felt like 37 browser tabs were open—all playing music. How could stress possibly be a choice?

But then I sat with it. (Okay, I pouted about it for a few hours and then sat with it.)

And here’s what I realized: Everything we do is a choice. The words we speak. The thoughts we think. The endless doom-scrolling we convince ourselves is “taking a break.” Even our stress response can become a choice—especially when we start bringing awareness to it.

Habits, Programming, and That Stress Swagger

Now, before you throw your standing desk at me, let me be clear: Some of these choices aren’t conscious. They’re habits we’ve built through years of repetition. They’re stress responses so familiar we treat them like coworkers—loud, intrusive, and always showing up uninvited.

Sometimes, we cling to stress because it makes us feel important. “If I’m stressed, I must be essential,” right? We get a cortisol spike, feel in demand, and suddenly our overflowing inbox feels like a status symbol.

But here’s the catch: when we start identifying with stress—making it part of who we are—we hand over the reins to our ego. And when ego drives the company car, let’s just say workplace health and wellness gets run off the road.

Who Are You Without the Stress?

If you’re not stressed, who are you?

If your plate isn’t overflowing, are you still valuable? (Spoiler alert: Yes.)

This is where workplace health and wellness moves from nap rooms and yoga sessions to something much deeper: identity.

If you’re no longer the one fixing everything, rescuing everyone, or single-handedly keeping the office from falling into disarray… who are you?

This isn’t just theoretical fluff—it’s a question Deepak Chopra asks himself every day: “Who am I, and why am I here?” And the answer can change. In fact, it should change. You’re not a job title. You’re not your stress. You’re not your calendar.

You’re a whole human being, and you deserve to feel good while doing good work.

The Workplace Wellness Shift That Actually Sticks

True workplace health and wellness isn’t about fixing your team with a monthly meditation app. It’s about creating space to ask:

What habits are we unconsciously choosing?

What are we glorifying in our culture?

What are we afraid to let go of?

If stress has been your badge of honor, maybe it’s time to take it off and see what happens.

One Actionable Takeaway

Today, intentionally choose one thing that brings you joy—no productivity angle, no agenda. Just joy. Then ask yourself: Who am I when I feel good? That’s where real wellness begins.

Workplace Wellness That Actually Works

(Because Your Company Isn't Run By Robots… Yet.)

Your team isn’t struggling because they lack skills—they’re drowning in stress, miscommunication, and endless meetings that should have been emails. If you want a high-performing, engaged workforce (with fewer passive-aggressive email chains), it’s time for a smarter approach to work.

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About the Author

Phallyn is a corporate veteran turned workplace optimization expert with over a decade of experience in high-pressure environments. Certified in Feng Shui and hypnotherapy, she transformed her own burnout into a career helping businesses build healthier, more effective teams—without outdated corporate fluff. Through humor, honesty, and real-world strategies, she’s here to make work work better.

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